Friday, March 18, 2016

Rules of the Game.

Hey guys, 
Well, nothing like rules for putting a little control in our way, that will have helped to navigate life. I hope they provide you with food for thought as you consider, or reevaluate, the rules you live by.

Number 1

Have vision
Put family first

Have a vision for who you want to become, in the first we have to visualize our future,  the things I found meaningful, the things I’m happy about, the types of relationships I want to create.
Where do you want to go? What’s your goal? What’s your desire?
These questions need to be answered.
It is necessary to work and knowing It’s far more important giving prime time to your family than to “get ahead” by working overtime. Make to you a big favor, see around you and answer, How much is your love for your family?

Number 2

Believe in your ability
but don't forget to Follow the Golden Rule

Your ability to know that with enough time, energy, focus, resources even, that over a period of time we can develop the knowledge, skill, competence, mastery of any area that we must succeed in.
It might not be easy; there will be a hardship, struggle, and frustration.
You can believe in yourself, we can do it!
As a reminder to treat others the way you would like to be treated. It is the gold rule. We help other because we know that we need them too. 

Number 3

Have fun no matter what, chasing your dreams and
Take care of yourself

We have that bring the fun. We go bring the joy into this situation proactively. We will show up in whatever way, whatever way you enjoy life, whatever way that fun, joy, zest and enthusiasm sparks for you.
Doing something for yourself is not a selfish act; it’s a sustaining act.
As you had in your hands five balls in your life, spoke Brian Dyson, CEO of Coca-Cola Enterprises, and are the work, family, health, friends, and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls—family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.

Number 4

Be patient but persistent 
Has a personal growth plan

Give yourself the patience and allowance to do a good job. It might take longer than you think it’s going to take. A lot of people are in such a hurry, calm has a plan for your day and your future. The key to personal growth is to have a beginner’s mindset. Beginners admit they don’t know everything and proceed accordingly. As a general rule, they’re open and humble, noticeably lacking in the rigidity that often accompanies experience and achievement.
We have to be persistent towards our dreams and patient with ourselves.

Number 5

Give more than you receive
Love and respect others playing the same game

Everyone must ask for help at some point along the journey of life, but each person also has an inborn need to serve others. 
So love others on your journey. Make it a practice. Make it a discipline. Make it an area of mastery, where other people around you always feel like you’re so attentive to them that they feel adored and appreciated. They feel your affection and it’s real, authentic and genuine.

To serve other people's and grow your life, we need to stay in the love forever.



Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Your Fears

5  insights of Napoleon Hill

last one.

In this last one section, we will see about fear. I am happy for finished this insights. Thanks so much, for your reading and don't forget, you can realize your dream!

The six basic fears, according to Napoleon Hill.

The fear of poverty
The fear of criticism
The fear of ill health
The fear of loss of love someone
The fear of old age
The fear of death

Fears are nothing more than states of mind. One’s state of mind is subject to control and direction. Then we will see nine useful topics for our life.

In a speech in 1933, American president Franklin Delano Roosevelt said “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” and in the 1600s, Francis Bacon remarked that “Nothing is terrible except fear itself.”

We all feel fear.
Here are nine actions you can take to face and overcome fear:

1. Discover the foundation of fear
"The fact is that most fear is not based on fact. Much of what we fear is based on a feeling".
Tell yourself, my fear is real, or my invention is one concrete truth or only my imagination.

2. Admit your fears
You need, to be honest with you.
 Mark Twain explained, “Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not the absence of fear.”
When you have collected all the facts, and been examined your fears, go on. Have courage.

3. Accept the frailty and brevity of life
We are all going to die sometime. We know but we don't accept. This can stop them from progressing.
We can go out and face or stay stopped for a while seeing the life pass, Dangerous everything is, and we must live together with this fact.

4. Accept fear as the price of progress
To do anything of value, we have to take risks. To make something beyond of fear. To make something above of insecurity.

5. Develop a burning desire that overcomes fear
Sometimes the best way to fight fear is to focus on our reason for confronting it.
We have to value all effort to get the better result. To focus on your objective, in your dream, and your future.
The next leap of your life depends on your capacity, of seeing your work realized.

6. Focus on what you can control
It’s not what happens to me, but what happens to me. What happens in my interior.
I cannot control the actions, other people.
or the others circumstances that involve other people but I can control my attitude and what I will be making.

7. Focus on today
Fear tries to make us look at all of our problems at once.
What must we make?
To Focus!
We only have to deal with the problem  one of each time. Day by day with all your effort.

8. Maintaining constantly your mind with wins passed.
We have that remember each moment, in that we have won in the past.
To know we are able and to say, I will figure it out. I can do it.

9. Do it now
Fears we always have been present in our life will have to be overcome with action.
I and you have to act, although we have fear.

Have courage, don't have another way.

- Hill, Napoleon (2004). Think and Grow Rich: The 21st-Century Edition, Revised and Updated. High Roads Media. ISBN 1-932429-23-9.

Friday, March 11, 2016

Develop persistence and it yours enemies

5  insights of Napoleon Hill

Number four.

Hi, my name is Helton Marin, and I live in Brazil. For me writing in English much fun, because I am Brazilian and I don't write very well in English But, I appreciate challenges and to learn new things.
We are in one series entitled, 5 insights of Napoleon Hill in your book Think and Grow Rich about. Where I extract small chunking and thoughts.
Before to talk them about persistence, I will talk the respect of 5 enemies well common for us:

1. Give up easily, of your dreams 
If you have a habit of giving up, you need to overcome it to be successful.  
2. The life should be easy. You cannot  think like this
Some expectations don’t always match reality.
When faced with tough situations, we have two choices.
go on or give up, you have to choose.Depend on only you.
3. Success not is a destination.
As soon as you think you no longer need to work to make progress, you'll begin to lose ground.
Your dreams and your success always will need your highest attention.
4. A lack of flexibility
We must not become dry, brittle, and inflexible. And we must endeavor to bounce back, no matter how we may feel.
Do not so seriously, you have to be attitude, calm and continuously.
5. A lack of vision
Have a vision for who you want to become. You need to ask yourself. What is my dream? What is my desire?Where do I want to go?
keeping your vision, you will reaping great benefits in the end.

Then we will see how to develop persistence. There is  four simple step and they are:

1. Burning desire for the fulfillment of yours dreams and plans.
The begin all the project you need much desire, concentration, and hard work.
2. A definite plan expressed in continuous action. 
Sit down and thinking about. What  Resources is even necessary for growing in your life and in your career.
3. A mind closed tightly against all negative and discouraging influences.
Thinking that is good, do not having afraid of criticism and negative words will help you in your way.
4. A Friendly alliance with one or more persons who will encourage one to follow through with both plan and purpose.
Everyone needs teamwork, with your wife or husband, your child, in your work. 
we owe Know, together is better, better for you live, better for your family better for your dream and future.

Don't give up! 

Notes: Hill, Napoleon (2004). Think and Grow Rich: The 21st-Century Edition, Revised and Updated. High Roads Media. ISBN 1-932429-23-9.